Becoming an Elite Listener

Matt Eschler

Published on: 29/12/2025

This article reveals that the most common and repairable source of marital conflict isn’t money, sex, or infidelity—but poor listening. Through clear examples, it contrasts destructive listening habits with the principles of “Elite Listening,” emphasizing presence, curiosity, empathy, and validation. The message is a practical call to action: when even one partner commits to truly listening, communication shifts, connection deepens, and relationships can be transformed.